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Eye-Catching Coed Baby Shower Invitations

By July 11, 2018 Uncategorized

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Trying to Get Pregnant After 35 and 40: Resist Faith Drainers

By June 14, 2018 Blog, Featured Home

Today I update this post for the same reason I wrote it over five years ago:  to encourage women over 35 and 40 in their trying-to-get pregnant journey and to resist the widely-believed myths promoted by faith drainers.

I wasn’t as aware of these faith drainers when I married at 40, conceived naturally (by God’s grace) and gave birth to healthy daughters at age 42 and 44.  However, I soon discovered the faith drainers when I listened to conversations in the hair salons about having a baby after 35 and when I researched the topic online. These common-believed myths ignited my passion and guided me to what I believe is one of my God-given assignments: to dispel misconceptions about pregnancy and having a baby after 35 and to provide emotional support for first time moms over 35 as they work with their health care professions to ensure the best care possible.

First, I must say that I don’t tell women to wait until their late 30s or their 40s to conceive. But, I realize not every woman magically finds “Mr. Right” in her 20s.  Also, there are many married women who tried for years to conceive and natural conception didn’t occur until after age 35.

While it’s not hard to find articles on the risks of having babies after 35, it’s not as easy to find information which counters the negative information. I’ve been providing positive stories on InSeason Mom blog for over 10 years about real women who conceived and gave birth to healthy babies after age 35 and in their 40s.

Now, let’s talk about a few faith drainers and check out the encouraging story links of first time moms over 35 and 40:

Medical Faith Drainers – You’ll Never Get Pregnant

Unfortunately, now a whole new group of women are being quoted commonly accepted misconceptions about getting pregnant after 35 and in their 40s. Many of the misconceptions such as women over 35 will have unhealthy babies are believed as truth. Rather than taking time to research the healthy 40-something female medical history,  the doctor looks at her age along with outdated statistics which are based on group not individual medical history/studies. The arrogant doctor tells her that she’ll never have a baby. This doctor is a biased licensed faith drainer.

Unlike the arrogant doctor, today, many healthcare professionals gauge pregnancy risk by a pregnant woman’s health status, not her age (source: Your Pregnancy after 35 by Dr. Curtis Glade and Author Judith Schuler).

Francesa’s Encouraging Story: http://inseasonmom.org/meet-francesca-kotomski/

Medical Faith Drainers – You’ll Never Get Pregnant with Your Own Eggs

I update this post as encouragement to the woman who recently read or heard reports that celebrities giving birth after 40 with their own eggs are greatly exaggerated or nearly impossible.

Joan was told that she would never get pregnant with her own eggs. Less than a week from turning 39 years old, she proved 3 fertility experts wrong when she gave birth to her son.

Joan’s Encouraging Story: http://inseasonmom.org/meet-featured-mom-joan/

Family, Friends, Co-Workers Faith Drainers- You’re too old to have a baby

I update this post as encouragement for the woman 35+ who has been told not only by co-workers but also by friends and even family that she is too old to have a baby. She may even think she’s too old to fulfill her heart’s desire.

Dinah Cicenas was so shocked when she became pregnant about 3 weeks after her wedding. She didn’t realize she was pregnant until she was about 8 weeks along. Dinah was so confused that she threw the “used” pregnancy test in a public dumpster so her husband wouldn’t find it! She thought she couldn’t get pregnant due to her age.

Dinah’s Encouraging Story: http://inseasonmom.org/december-inseason-mom-dinah-meyer-cicenas/

Combat Faith Drainers With Faith Not Fear

I update this post as a reminder that an All Powerful God can bring a child or children into a woman’s life by any means that He sees appropriate or as we say in the Carolinas “sees fit.”

Jennifer’s Encouraging Story: http://inseasonmom.org/meet-jennifer-workman/

Although this blog focuses more on biological moms, I don’t think this is the only way a woman can become a mom. I believe in motherhood through adoption, which I’ve always viewed as positive, thanks to the loving experiences of family and friends.

I believe in motherhood through marriage, becoming a stepmom. Stepmoms are  often not given the same rank of importance as a way God brings a child into a woman’s life, However, I know from personal experience that custodial stepmoms should rank right up there with other moms.

Wendy’s Encouraging Story: http://inseasonmom.org/featured-inseason-mom-april-2013-wendy/

Words for Your Mental Battle

Whether you begin your motherhood journey one day from now or many days from now. I want you to plant the information that I’ve shared with you deep in your mind.  Take it out as a reminder on your journey.  Take it out to as a sharp faith sword to slice your misconceptions and fears.  Remain open in your journey to motherhood. Above all else, I wish you Happy Mothering!

Mini-version of my story: http://inseasonmom.org/about-cynthia/

Sherry’s Pregnancy Over 35 Success After Miscarriages

By March 4, 2018 Blog, Featured Home, Featured Moms, Uncategorized

This Indiana mom is as vocal about her faith as she is about her two successful pregnancies over age 35 and her miscarriages. Pictured  above with daughters, meet our Featured First Time Mom Over 35 as she shares her faith-filled pregnancy and birth journey, which included a healthy diet and medication.

Name: Sherry

Age you gave birth: I was 36 with my first baby, and 40 with my second one.

State/Country of residence: Indiana

Children’s names and ages: Faith is now 5, and Josephine is almost 2!

Current or former profession(s): Mom blogger at TheLateStork.com

PREGNANCY

How long were you trying to get pregnant? 

We naturally conceived 3 months after getting married.  With our second baby, we were trying for two years and needed help with fertility medication.

What did you do or not do to increase your chances of getting pregnant after 35?

I didn’t do anything but pray for our first daughter, Faith.  For Josephine, lots and lots more prayer. I ate healthier, and stopped drinking coffee.  I eventually had to take medication to force ovulation, scheduled intercourse and conceived!  Before conceiving with Josephine, we had two miscarriages.

SUPPORT

Medical Community

How supportive were your doctors during your pregnancy?

My doctors were all very supportive!  They weren’t concerned about my age. They took good care of me, and kept me informed of any potential risks during pregnancy or health issues with our babies.

Did you change doctors or would like to have changed doctors? Why or why not?

I never considered switching doctors. I felt very safe under their care. I was fortunate enough to have the same physician deliver both our daughters!

Family and Friends

What was the reaction of friends and family when you told me about your pregnancy?  Extremely excited and grateful to God that our prayers were being answered.

LABOR AND DELIVERY

What do you remember most about the birth experience?

My first birth was 31 hours long!  Faith was 2 weeks overdue, and I had to be induced.  Very long time to be in labor.  Here is Faith’s birth video!  https://youtu.be/BYAhEajO_v4

With Josephine, I again had to be induced because I had gestational diabetes and they wanted her out 2 weeks early.   Labor pains began about 12 hours after being induced, and the contractions lasted about 4 hours I think.  I know they usually say second pregnancies are easier but that was not the case for me.  Contractions were much more painful the second time giving birth!  But so worth it! Here’s Josephine’s birth video!  https://youtu.be/Rz9I0-WtNeg

I’M A MOM!

Do you have any concerns about being a mom over 35?

If so, how do you address these concerns? I am BLESSED to be an older mom.  I have full trust in God’s timing.  There is a time and season for everything – Ecclesiastes 3:1. In this season of my life I am thanking the Lord every single day for our beautiful and healthy baby girls He gave us.

What do you enjoy most about being a first time mom over 35?

I’m happy to have two important qualities now: Wisdom and humility.  Characteristics I wouldn’t have had much of  if I became a mother in my 20’s.  I have learned that life does not go as you planned, but how the Lord has planned. “Humans plan their course, but the LORD establishes their steps.” – Proverbs 16:9. I have learned that I want and need Jesus in my life in order to have the life I was meant to live.  I humbled myself and learned that “they who wait for the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles!” – Isaiah 40:31. It is so true!

How has becoming a mom changed you?

To be honest, I feel I have always been a mother… just waiting on my children 🙂  The only thing that has changed is my ever-growing love and thankfulness to our Lord. With each passing day, I get to see my girls grow and thrive and learn about our sweet Heavenly Father.  What an enormous blessing that is!

What advice do you have for women considering motherhood after 35?

“Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you.” – Matthew 7:7

If motherhood after 35 does not become a reality, learn to accept what God’s plan may be for your life; whatever that may be.  “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11.

One thing I have always blogged about during my own journey of pregnancies and miscarriages is, “Always hold on to the Lord’s hand. Never let go. No matter what happens.”

Natural Pregnancy After 40 for New Mom Holly

By January 3, 2018 Blog, Featured Home, Featured Moms, Uncategorized

Natural pregnancy over 40 was not only possible for Holly (pictured above with daughter Lucy) from Colorado, but she now dispels fears of other women considering motherhood after 40. Here is Featured InSeason Mom Holly’s pregnancy and birth story:

Name: Holly

Age you gave birth: 43

State of residence: Colorado

Child’s name: Lucy

Current or former profession(s): Social work graduate student and freelance writer

PREGNANCY

How long were you trying to get pregnant?

5 months

What did you do or not do to increase your chances of getting pregnant after 40?

I don’t smoke cigarettes and I didn’t drink alcohol during the time I was trying to conceive.  I was also seeing an acupuncturist at the time to address sinus issues.  According to Chinese medicine principles, Acupuncture is designed to unblock one’s chi (energy flow) and create a free flow of life force energy throughout the body.

Acupuncturists believe that women have low fertility due to congested areas in the body which block their chi.  Freeing up the flow of energy facilitates and encourages fertility.  And while I didn’t seek out acupuncture for that purpose, it definitely increased the chances of pregnancy and sped up the process significantly.  I also took a prenatal vitamin with folic acid.

MEDICAL COMMUNITY SUPPORT

How supportive were your doctors during your pregnancy?

For the most part, the doctors and other medical staff were very supportive.  I had a managed-care system of health care at the time, which worked out to my advantage.  There were many different providers from which to choose and, upon deciding that I didn’t click with the personality of the initial OB/GYN, I was able to choose a new one without any problem.

The prenatal care included multiple free visits with the OB, 3 visits with a specialist in high risk pregnancy, and various other types of frequent monitorings such as non-stress tests.  I was lucky in that my health insurance provider has a standard practice for all pregnant women over 35 that includes the aforementioned services.  I felt very well cared for.

Did you change doctors or would like to have changed doctors? Why or why not?

I did change doctors about halfway through the pregnancy.  I felt that the original doctor did not make herself available for questions and did not fully explain the answers to the questions I did have.  She did not seem sensitive to the fact that this was my first pregnancy and I had no idea what to expect.  She just had a bad bedside manner.  I chose a new doctor through the network and was very pleased with her.  She walked me through the process slowly and explained how my situation was different from a typical pregnancy due to age and high-risk status.

FAMILY AND FRIENDS SUPPORT

What was the reaction of friends and family when you told them about your pregnancy?

They were all excited and happy for me.  It should be noted that I didn’t tell anyone I was trying to get pregnant, so there was no pressure or unsolicited opinions from my social circle or family members.  I didn’t receive any negative feedback about my age.

LABOR AND DELIVERY

What do you remember most about the birth experience?

I had high blood pressure throughout the pregnancy and it was necessary to induce labor once I reached full term at 37 weeks.  This was 2 weeks earlier than I had planned.

The main things I remember about the experience are these:

I felt absolute terror about the physical pain that would be involved once the process began. Once I got the epidural, all that changed and I was so much more comfortable than I thought I’d be.  I was so happy that I decided to do it in a hospital, surrounded by medical personnel who knew what they were doing.  While a C-section is more likely with an epidural, that was not the case for us.  Thank goodness!

A few people gave me the advice of going on 30-minute walks 3-4 times per week and doing squats daily in preparation for labor. I started doing that in the 6 weeks leading up to delivery.  Wow, they were so right!  I was able to get the baby out in 4 pushes.  The nurses remarked several times about how strong I was.

I’M A MOM!

Do you have any concerns about being a mom over 40? If so, how do you address these concerns?

I’m probably like most other moms over 40 in that I’m afraid I’ll die too soon to see her graduate, get married, have kids, etc.  But as far as I can tell, that fear is utter nonsense. It is statistically way more likely than not that I’ll live into my 80s and get to hang out with my 40-year-old daughter. That said, I feel compelled to stay in decent shape so I don’t throw out my back hauling the kid up and down the stairs.

I do calisthenics workouts in my living room (7-10 minutes tops) and I take my daughter and pug out for 30-minute walks a few days a week.  It keeps me feeling strong enough to handle what motherhood throws at me.  I used to want to be in shape just to look good but now I have a whole new, more worthwhile reason to be fit.  And I’m so much more motivated because the pay-off is immediate.  It only takes a few weeks of doing pushups and core exercises to make a significant difference in your strength and fitness.

What do you enjoy most about being a first-time mom over 40?

I love that I got to experience so many things in my 20’s and 30’s, free as a bird to live life the way I wanted and see the things I saw.  I don’t have to wonder what life would have been like if I didn’t have kids because I already experienced it.  I also have the calm attitude that comes with time and I know how to manage stress.  I don’t get rattled easily.

Also, I grew up without the internet or cell phones and I’ve had a job since high school.  I feel well equipped to ensure my daughter has the skills to succeed in life, part of which will be knowing how to entertain herself without an iPad.

How has becoming a mom changed you?

In most ways, I’d say I haven’t changed much at all.  It has been surprisingly easy to incorporate Lucy into my regular routine and lifestyle.  What has changed is that I feel I have a deeper connection to humanity in general.  I suddenly care more for all kids around me; I think about the world they will live in and what life will be like after I’m gone.  Now that I have a direct descendant I’m more emotionally attached to the next generation.  I’m excited to see who they’ll grow to become and what things are important to them.

I’m also more motivated to make money in different ways.  I’m doing a variety of things to bring in money so I can help provide for my family.

What advice do you have for women considering motherhood after 40?

Go for it!!!  Don’t worry about being too old.  I’m in better shape now than I was in my 30’s.  I remember reading and hearing so many negative things about giving birth after a certain age and it scared me to death.  It wasn’t until I reconnected with an old friend who had 2 kids after 40 that I began to feel okay about going ahead with it.  I was so freaked out, thinking for sure my child would be severely disabled or that I would be putting myself in physical danger.  But that just isn’t the case for most people having babies in “advanced maternal age.”  I worked in the field of developmental disabilities for over 20 years and rare was the case that a child’s disability was directly related to the mother’s age.

Additional comments?

I encourage other women to mentally prepare themselves for feeling like they’re having a nervous breakdown for the first few months of the child’s life.  It’s okay to feel totally overwhelmed.  The adjustment period is bound to be a little harder for us older gals because we’ve been grown women for much longer than the 20 and 30-somethings.  It can be a huge shock to the system to make such a big change later in life.  But after the initial shock wears off, you’ll probably find that you’re way more prepared for this now than you would have been 15 or 20 years before. The timing is just right.

InSeason Mom Cynthia would like to thank Holly for sharing her inspiring pregnancy and birth story. Check out her website Mom In Phase Two.   Are you a first time mom over 35, over 40? Email inseasonmom@gmail.com or cynthia@inseasonmom.org for details to share your encouraging pregnancy and birth story.

Meet Mom Karen Abercrombie, Actress,Singer-Songwriter,Speaker, Producer

By December 26, 2017 Blog, Featured Home, Featured Moms, Popular Posts, Uncategorized

 

Name: Karen Abercrombie

Age when you gave birth: 39

Residence: North Carolina and Los Angeles, CA

Child’s name: Michael, currently a college student

Current profession(s): Actress (Miss Clara from War Room Movie), Singer-Songwriter, Storyteller, Motivational Speaker, Producer at Tapestry Entertainment http://www.karenabercrombie.com

PREGNANCY

How long were you trying to get pregnant?

Oh my, I was trying around 6 years.

What did you do to increase your chances of getting pregnant after 35?

You know people tell you about natural ways to stimulate the ovaries. I did a lot of teas. I stayed in the best optimum physical shape as I could. And, my husband and I were checked out a couple of times by doctors to make sure (our health) everything was good.

SUPPORT

Medical Community

How supportive were your doctors during your pregnancy?

My doctors were extremely supportive. They were helpful. Sometimes, the medical community is overwhelmed. So, it’s a quick “hi” and “see you tomorrow.” But, my doctors were helpful, warm, loving and engaging.

Family and Friends

What was the reaction of friends and family when you told them about your pregnancy?

They were all pretty much blown away and excited. I taught children’s theatre. I was very active in the community with youth and children. I’ve always loved children and everyone knew that. I was honored to be the godmother for a bunch of children. But still inside, I wanted my own. My family and friends were rallying and rooting for me to become pregnant.

LABOR AND DELIVERY

What do you remember most about the birth experience?

Oh my goodness, I was in labor for 28 hours!  I got to 7cm. Then after all that time, they decided to do a C-section. I wish they had done it sooner but the baby was getting stressed. Then I said, “okay, do it.”

I AM MOM

What concerns you most about being a mom over 35 and how do you address these concerns?

The only thing is my husband and I are older and my child is an only child. Of course, if you can be there with him forever, you would. But, there have been so many benefits. Having a younger child at my age, I’m current— in technology, lingo and everything.

I’ve always kept myself in shape. I hiked until I was 8 months pregnant. I lived out in LA during that time. They have wild cats up in their hills. So, when I hiked, I took my dog, baby in the womb, a weapon (for wild cats) because I wasn’t as fast as I used to be.   I exercised throughout my pregnancy. After my baby was born, I continued to take care of myself and bounced back quickly.  I’ve kept up my exercise and still take care of myself.

How has becoming a mom changed you? What do you enjoy most about being an older mom?

I’m wiser and more settled. I prayed to have a baby for what seemed like forever. After my son was born, my career picked up. But, I made a decision to slow things down. I wanted to be a “hands-on” mother, to concentrate and raise the gift God gave me.

Becoming a mother allowed me to understand God’s love better, the unconditional love He has for me. He not only gave me the gift of His Son but He gave me the gift of my son. So, I could know the mother to child love.

What advice do you have for women considering motherhood after 35?

Be in the best physical shape as possible, first and foremost.  Motherhood takes a lot of energy. You can see it wearing out younger mothers. Once you’re in good physical health, you can work on the mental part and everything that goes along with it. I made it a point to stay in shape and trust God to guide me.

Visit Karen’s website to learn more about her. Meanwhile, check out the clip below of her outstanding portrayal of Miss Clara in the movie War Room.

First Time Mom Over 35 Elizabeth-Natural Pregnancy After Infertility Diagnosis

By October 3, 2017 Blog, Featured Moms, Uncategorized

First Time Mom Over 35 Elizabeth DeRoo (pictured with son Luke Anthony) shares her inspiring story of natural conception after an unexplained infertility diagnosis and a miscarriage.

Name: Elizabeth DeRoo

Age you gave birth: 38

State/Country of residence: New York

Child’s name and age: Luke Anthony, 4 months

Current or former profession(s): Commercial Insurance Account Manager

PREGNANCY

How long were you trying to get pregnant?

We were trying for 22 months.

What did you do or not do to increase your chances of getting pregnant after 35?

After 6 months of not getting pregnant naturally I sought the assistance of a fertility specialist. My husband and I went through testing and were diagnosed with “unexplained infertility”. We decided to utilize the IUI procedure and got pregnant the second month of treatment. That pregnancy ended up being a partial molar and ended in a miscarriage at 7 weeks.

While I was pregnant my fertility doctor mentioned to me that he believed I could probably get pregnant on my own. After the miscarriage, we were not able to try to get pregnant for 6 months per doctor’s orders due to the nature of the partial molar pregnancy. When we were given the go ahead to resume treatment, we decided instead to try on our own for a few months again to get pregnant naturally. We conceived the very first month! I had taken Evening Primrose Oil and cough syrup to try to increase my chances of getting pregnant. I have no idea whether the herbs and the cough syrup helped me to get pregnant or not, but it was worth the small monetary and time investment either way!

SUPPORT

Medical Community

How supportive were your doctors during your pregnancy?

My doctor had her youngest child at the age of 37 so she was supportive of me having a child later in life before I even got pregnant. I was on the practice’s high risk case load due to my age, but that didn’t bother me and it didn’t affect my experience negatively.

Did you change doctors or would like to have changed doctors? Why or why not?

I had a fabulous team of doctors and would not have changed that. I ended up being diagnosed with Intrahepatic Cholestasis of Pregnancy (ICP) at 28 weeks along. When I suspected I might have ICP (due to sudden onset of intense itching), my doctor took my concern seriously. She immediately ordered blood tests and due to her quick response I was diagnosed four days later and my treatment for the condition began immediately. ICP can be fatal for the baby so it was imperative that we got the condition under control. I cannot say enough positive things about the doctors I had treating me and my baby.  They were amazing!

Family and Friends

What was the reaction of friends and family when you told them about your pregnancy?

Everyone was thrilled for my husband and me! We had been trying for almost 2 years so our friends and family were over the moon for us.

Labor and Delivery

What do you remember most about the birth experience?

I had to deliver my son at 37 weeks due to an increased risk of stillbirth during the last few weeks of ICP pregnancies. I was induced, but ended up having a C-section after 36 hours because my labor did not progress. The birth process was a little traumatic for me because I felt separated from the experience by the surgical and sterile nature of a C-section. Despite it being a less than perfect birth experience, I am grateful I was able to deliver a healthy baby boy. The actual birth was a short period of time and when remembering it I try to focus on what came after that, being a MOM!

I AM A MOM!

Do you have any concerns about being a mom over 35? If so, how do you address these concerns?

I worry about being around for Luke well into his adult life. I try to recognize that none of us have control over how long we will be around. The best I can do is take care of myself. I believe I became a mother at the exact time that I was supposed to. I have to leave the rest of it in God’s hands.

What do you enjoy most about being a first time mom over 35?

I feel like I have a better sense of priorities at this stage of my life. My family comes first before any other obligation I have. I’m perfectly fine putting off chores to enjoy time with my child. I know that he’s only going to be small for a short time so I’m trying to soak it all in. I am fine saying “no” to outside requests in order to spend time with my son. I have to work outside of my home so the time I have with him is precious to me. I get such joy out of spending my evenings focusing on him, giving him a bath and putting him to bed each night. This experience is my reward after a day at the office.

How has becoming a mom changed you?

I think my heart has softened a bit more. I’m more open. I feel things more deeply than I did before. I also realize that I need to be my best self. I can parent my son and tell him how to be a good person, but what will have the deepest impression on him are my actions. I want him to see the qualities in me that I am trying to impart on him. I know I am not a perfect Mom, but I hope to be the Mom my son needs.

What advice do you have for women considering motherhood after 35?

Don’t count yourself out because you’re over 35. If you really have the desire in your heart to become a mother, pursue it. And remember that most statistics you will find online about getting pregnant after 35 are from very old studies…I’m talking centuries old. If I had to give myself advice based on my experience I would say, have patience. I think if I had given myself more time to get pregnant I would have gotten there on my own without having gone through fertility treatment. I don’t regret any part of my journey, but I might have saved myself a few bucks!

Additional comments?

I would encourage other Inseason Moms that might be reading this to share their story. I think unless you’re surrounded by other moms that have gotten pregnant over 35, it can feel pretty lonely. I had the desire to become pregnant and was so unsure whether that dream would ever be fulfilled. The stories I found on this website and any others I could find, buoyed me when I was feeling low.

During the dark times the stories of other women encouraged me and helped me to continue moving forward. I think I thought that it was going to be a lot harder to become a mother than it was. And, what I have learned from that is to have faith. I have also come to believe that women are fertile far longer than the mainstream media would have you believe.

In the end, my pregnancy came with such little struggle it was almost anticlimactic, but it is by far the best thing to have ever happened to me. My life is filled with so much joy because of my sweet Luke. I couldn’t be more grateful!